I read this web site every day because I am also grieving the loss of a child, and this is part of my path to healing. I, too, have sometimes been saddened by what appears to be a lack of faith on Ken's part, or ignored anger at God. It is clear, though, that grieving is a long and different path for each of us, and your angry outburst was painful for me. Why? Because it is about your needs, not the needs of one grieving. Your needs? To show him the right way, to have him be at the end of the path, for him to believe your way and be OK for Pete's sake!, for the pain to be over. Do you know that different people have different relationships with Jesus not exactly like yours? Do you know that grieving is a very, very, very long path and that Ken is obviously not at "the end" -- that this pain does not end? What are Ken's needs? I think he needs support in the process. The kind of thing Jesus would give. Just love. Just that. The hand reaching out saying "I am with you on the path. I love you. How you feel today is OK." Let's support him. It takes so very long for feelings to catch up with knowing. Let's reach out and tell him we're with him. Let's endure the discomfort of this web site, because it is about feelings, and feelings are messy. Love allows for change and growth. Let's support him.