Ken My wife and I are so very sad about this and I hope That I can be there for you on any way. When my 18 year old son was killed two years ago I thought I was going to loose it right there, but I went deep down inside myself and I realized how much I loved him. It was pretty bad for a while and it hits you when you least expect it. The only thing you can do is lie down and cry it out. I wrote a website for Mike and I hope you get a chance to view it. I hope you wife will be alright. It's going to be very difficult for her and I hope she finds the strength to get through this for Jenny's sake. If you want to use the house in New Hampshire to get away a bit let me know, because your welcome to use it like before.